Friday, February 23, 2007
Sunday, February 18, 2007
THE YEAR 4705 BEGINS
Friday, February 16, 2007
I DON'T HAVE IT ANYMORE
MANILA MASSACRE BEFORE THE LIBERATION
Thursday, February 15, 2007
WORLD WAR II and JAPANESE OCCUPATION
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
NEVER HAD ONE
Friday, February 09, 2007
FROM THE MOUTH OF AN ALMOST FOUR YEARS OLD
There are times that he really amazes me! Occasionally he will blurt-out some phrases that I don't expect coming from him. I know that he is very retentive, but remembering them even a week passed or so, is something.
I have jotted down some of them and will share them with you;
1.) "I am happy in Umpha house"
2.) "I am back"
Three Wednesdays ago, this was the phrase that came from him. I guess this means that after a week of his absence, he is back to his Umpha's house.
3.) "I like that. It is delicious"
Anything that you let him try for the first time...when he likes, that will be what he will be saying and he will ask for more.
4.) "I live in San Diego, Africa"
Ask him where he lives and that will be the answer. I guess he got the idea that Africa must be a nice place because of all the animals that live there. Lately we are trying to correct him to include their house numbers and omit the Africa and say California instead.
5.) "Ay Caramba"
This must had came from "Diego Go Diego" toon that he likes to watch. They interchange the dialogues in Spanish and English.
6.) "Ay Diyos Ko"
He learned this from me. It means "Oh My God" in Tagalog. This is one of the first Tagalog he has learned before he was three years old.
7.) "Takaw and Kalawakaw and OA (overacting)"
There are times that he will sing and Umma will say you are "kalawakaw" meaning he is out of tune; anyway he loves to sing. "Takaw" means eating a lot. There are times that when he does not like anything, he will make faces, sometimes will have his eyes half-closed with his head up. With the posing and attitude we call him "OA." Now when we ask him , "who is takaw and kalawakaw and OA...he will say; "Kai Van Patten.'
8.) "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star"
This is a very important song for him. Every time he goes to the bathroom to pee, even though he has not touched himself, "I have to wash my hands." Tisha taught him the song...to use as a "timer." He knows that after the song he is done washing and ready for a towel. He does not want to have a dirty hand. Whenever I am with him, I always have a damp hand towel so he can wipe his hands.
9.) "Umpha will spank her on the cheek"
There is a little girl about his age in the neighborhood and at times they play together. Her name is Lulu. We uses her as a ruse so he will eat. We tell him that Lulu will come over and eat everything. "No it's mine." "Umpha will spank her in the cheek." Of course he will eat with the "OA" posing. This mostly happens when we are introducing him to something new or that hasn't tasted before.
10.) "I have to find some treasures"
He was promised that he will get a treasure if he doesn't wet his diaper but tells us when he wants to pee or poo. He is very good in my opinion in telling us that he needs to use the bathroom. He knows that Umma keeps the "treasure" in the storeroom, he will go there and will try to find any. There are times that he will open the door and when asked what are he is doing there..."I have to find a treasure" that is what he will tell you. He is not very choosy...last Wednesday, Umma gave him a "Crayola" portable radio with head phone. He exclaimed; "WOW! I like it. We have to get some batteries. I will get my screwdriver." The funny thing is he was so anxious to open the battery case using his screw driver. "I can do it, I am strong." So I let him; sort of guided him to open the case and he was happy that he was able to open it...with Umpha's help.
11.)"Oh! I forgot"
He was reluctant to go home the other Wednesday (nothing unusual)..so I asked for a hug...he hugged me and kissed me...resigned to go home and I told him "how about Umma?" He turned around and said, "Oh I forgot." Umma got her hug and kiss too.
12.) "Umphaaaaaaaa! come and watch "Tom and Jerry" with me. He wants me to lie down with him under the blanket, sitting side by side we watched his favorite show together.
13.) "I sit on your head...I am your hat."
While we were watching TV and as usual laying under the blanket...he stood up and sat on my forehead. That was his comment.
14.) "I have to plant some seeds"
We have been eating cherimoya from the garden. He loved it after he tasted it...but was so fascinated with the seeds. He remembers that I let him plant some wax gourd seeds before and he remembers that they grew. After lunch, we went out in the the backyard and he planted some seeds. Maybe he will be a gardener too like Umpha.
There must be some more phrases that may be included here...at the moment this will do for now. I haven't started the "WWII YEARS" memories...it might be on the next blog.
Monday, February 05, 2007
HOW OLD ARE YOU UMPHA?
television
penicillin
polio vacines
xerox
frozen foods
yogurts
Pizza hut, McDonalds, Taco Bell
instant coffee
contact lenses
jet airplanes
frisbees
skateboards
hang gliders
the pill
There were no:
credit cards
stereo
FM radios
electric typewriters
digital cameras
personal computers
CDs and DVDs
videos
laser beams
ball point pens
pelt tip pen
acrylic paints
Men had not invented:
panty hose
air conditioners
dishwashers
clothes dryers and the clothes were hung out to dry in the fresh air.
man hadn't walked on the moon.
every family had a mother and a father
until i was 24, i called every man older than me, "sir."
We were before:
computer dating
dual careers
daycare centers
group theraphy
our lives were governed by the ten commandments, good judgement, and common sense.
we were taught to know the difference between right and wrong and stand up and take responsibilities for our actions.
serving the country was a privilege, living in this country was a bigger privilege.
having a meaningful relationship meant getting along with you family.
draft dodgers were people who closed their doors when evening breeze started.
time-sharing meant time with the family spent together in the evenings and weekends - not purchasing a condominiums by the seaside.
we listened to big bands and radio shows.
if you saw anything with "made in japan" on it, it was junk.
the term "making out" refered to how you did on your school exam.
we had 5 &10 stores where you could actually buy things for 5 and 10 cents.
you could buy a chevy for $600.00...but not all could afford one, because gas was 11 cents a gallon.
In my days:
"coke" was a cold drink.
"grass" or "weeds" were mowed.
"pot was something your mother cooked your meals in.
"rock music" was your mother's lullaby.
"aids" were helpers in the hospitals or in the schools.
"chips" meant a piece of wood.
"hardware" was found in hardware stores.
"software" wasn't even a word.
"briefcase" was what the lawyer put his papers in and carried to court.
"web" meant to be a spiders home.
"links" meant the connection of two chains.
"dashboard" meant the front section of a car where the odometer was.
"address book" was usually a small black book with handwritten addresses.
how about that? our generation invented all of those things that we have today. i wonder what will be next from your generation.
and we were the last generation to actually believe that a lady needed a husband to have a baby.
I am almost 74 years old next month!